The List

This will more than likely be my one and ONLY post about relationships/dating/etc…

For those not in the loop, I work with 21 females and 1 male (go @jyarbrough!). With that in mind, the majority of our conversations fall in the realm of: 1) work 2) dating 3) babies 4) marriage 5) sports (and that’s just a hat tip to John’s up and coming “Man Hour” initiative)

One interesting practice someone brought up was to make a list – tuck it away – and bring it back up in the future. By “tucking away”, I place mine on the Internet – so be it.

I’ll reference this in about 23,213,434,908,321,312 years 🙂 by the by – this is a collaborative list, so not all of the content is my own:


  • Intelligent
  • Driven
  • Passionate
  • Funny
  • Unexpected
  • Confident
  • Employs Family Values
  • Proactive
  • Healthy
  • Worldly
  • Evolved Social Network – no leeches
  • Honest


  • Lying
  • Cheating
  • Poor Communication (in terms of frequency, content)
  • Lazy (physically, mentally, financially)
  • Unstable
  • Self-centered
  • Clingy


  • Distance (geography and mentally)
  • Fame
  • Physical Appearance

If you happen to fit all of the above, DM me! haha JUST KIDDING – seriously, please don’t.